From Movie Night to Legacy Planning: Navigating Life Transitions
Episode 082
Aired on April 4, 2026
“Inheritance battles and legal costs are becoming a growing concern. Some families are losing millions to lawyers and costly courtroom fights because they don’t have anything in place.”
Retirement is often described as a single destination, but for most of us, it is a significant life transition that requires constant adjustment.
On this week’s episode of Retire Well, Josh Bretl, President of Wellment Financial, shared a personal story about taking his kids to see a movie in downtown Elmhurst.
It was a simple Saturday night, but it marked a change in his family dynamic: they went because they wanted to go, not just to kill time.
This shift from doing what you must to doing what you choose is the heart of a successful retirement.
The Importance of Documenting Your Legacy
One of the most critical areas of The Wellment Way is legacy and estate planning. While it can be a difficult topic to address, failing to put your wishes on paper can leave your family in a mess.
We have seen how even high-profile estates, like those of Prince or Aretha Franklin, can end up in years of litigation because of missing or unclear documentation.
Josh emphasizes that documentation is not just about who gets your money: it is about deciding what happens when you are no longer physically or mentally able to make those choices yourself.
This includes:
- Regularly reviewing beneficiaries to ensure they align with your current life situation.
- Communicating healthcare wishes so your children are not forced to make agonizing decisions without guidance.
- Protecting family assets, such as a vacation home, by setting up clear funding and usage strategies ahead of time.
Are You Driving Your Portfolio Too Fast?
When it comes to your investments, many people are driving their portfolios at a much higher rate of speed than they realize.
Imagine driving 80 miles per hour on the interstate. That speed works for the open road, but you cannot pull into your driveway at that same pace.
Retirement planning requires a similar shift in mindset. At Wellment, we use technology to assign a risk score to your portfolio. This score provides an objective look at your holdings.
While the S&P 500 typically carries a risk score around 77, your retirement needs might require something much lower, like a 40.
We also discuss the Rule of 100, which suggests subtracting your age from 100 to determine how much of your money should probably be in growth oriented investments.
However, this is only a starting point. Every situation is unique: a retiree with a full pension has much more flexibility than someone relying solely on their IRA and Social Security.
“If you’ve already won the game, why do you keep playing?”
Financial Literacy: Understanding Your Spending
April is Financial Literacy Month, but we believe financial literacy is not about memorizing industry jargon.
Our clients understand how a strategy applies to their specific life, and the most important variable in any financial plan is understanding how much you spend.
Knowing your monthly and yearly spending allows you to make smarter decisions regarding:
- Social Security: Deciding when the optimal time is to begin taking benefits.
- Asset Withdrawal: Determining which accounts to spend down first to minimize tax exposure.
- Risk Management: Ensuring you have enough safe, predictable income to cover your lifestyle without relying on market volatility.
Retirement planning is not cookie cutter. It is about building a plan that allows you to sleep well at night knowing your family is protected and your future is secure.
Ready to talk? Call (630) 478-9599 to schedule your complimentary 15-minute call with a Wellment advisor.
